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Slacker and Steve - OPP: Married But Flirting (Audio)

May 10, 2016

Today’s OPP is from Will and he needs your help to save his marriage or make the decision to walk away! Here’s what he said: 

 

Yi Slacker & Steve,

I'm married and we have 2 little kids. I love my wife and my family with all my heart, but the spark is gone in our relationship and I can't remember the last time we had relations. We actually only have relations about 4 or 5 times a year. Last week I was out of town for work and met another girl. We only talked and absolutely nothing happened, but she got my number and texted me a few days later. We have been texting for the last week and she wants to hang out some time. I would never do anything to betray my wife but I have to admit that it feels good to have someone pay me some attention. I feel really guilty for thinking about another woman and it's been eating at me all week...but I can't stop. What do I do? Why do I want to keep texting her if it makes me feel so guilty?  -Will

 

What should Will do? Should he continue his texting affair, tell his wife, or leave the marriage? 

Slacker and Steve - OPP: Married But Flirting 5/10

The spark from Will's marriage is gone and he recently met a woman on a business trip. Nothing happened in the relations department, but the two can't stop texting each other. He enjoys the attention more than he hates the guilt. What should Will do? Should he re-ignite the spark or light a new one?