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Slacker and Steve - OPP: Drinking With the Neighbor (Audio)

March 6, 2017

Today’s OPP is from Josie and she needs your help! Here’s what she said:

 

Yi guys,

We had a couple move in 2 doors down from us last summer. We got to know each other really well and have hung out a lot. Lately, I have been busy with work so I haven’t seen them all that much. My husband was still going over to hang out with them and drink wine. I was totally fine with that until I found out that it was just the wife. Her husband has been travelling for work and has been out of town for most of the last 2 weeks. My husband didn’t think it was a big deal because we are friends with both of them. He said he wouldn’t cheat on me but I find it weird that it took him 2 weeks to mention the husband hasn’t been there. He’s been coming home late when he goes over there, but that is pretty normal of when we hang out with them. I want to believe him but something in my gut is telling me things aren’t right. Could they be cheating or is it normal to just hang out with a female friend when your spouses aren’t around? Am I allowed to tell him he’s not allowed to go over there without me?

Josie

 

What advice do you have for Josie?

Slacker and Steve - OPP: Drinking With the Neighbor 3/6

Josie and her husband are friends with their neighbors who are also married. Josie has been busy with work and hasn't been able to spend time with them, but her husband has, frequently. Josie's husband just told her that their neighbor's husband has been traveling, so it was just he and their wife alone while drinking. Could they be cheating or is it normal to just hang out with a female friend when your spouses aren’t around?