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Slacker and Steve - OPP: Cold Feet (Audio)

April 27, 2017

Today's OPP is from Krista:

 

Yi Slacker & Steve,
I’m getting married in a little over a month and I’m kind of freaking out. There are a thousand things running through my head and I’m not sure if I’m ready to get married. First, my ex texted me out of the blue a few weeks ago just to tell me a restaurant we went to all the time was closing. Nothing serious, but why after not talking for years does he text me right before my wedding? There’s that. Then I am suddenly terrified by the idea of being tied to a single person for the rest of my life. There aren’t going to be anymore firsts—fist dates, first kisses, first time saying I love you. Everything in my life will be tied to this one person. What if some amazing job opportunity opens up and I can’t take it because he’s tied to his job and I end up stuck somewhere I hate for the next 25 years? We want to start a family. What if we can’t get pregnant it ends up ruining our relationship? I’m just scared of everything right now. Is this something most women experience before they get married? Should I call it off until I don’t have any of these second thoughts? Is it just cold feet?
Krista

 

What should Krista do?

Slacker and Steve - OPP: Cold Feet 4/27

Our OPP is getting married soon and there are a few things making her have second thoughts. She’s not sure if they are legitimate concerns…or things every woman thinks about before getting married. Hear her OPP and tell her what you think.