Take Boyfriend To Wedding

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Take Boyfriend To Wedding by Slacker and Steve , posted Oct 27 2011 3:44PM
Yi! Sammy's friend's getting married soon back in her hometown in Ohio and her boyfriend wants to go to the wedding with her. The only problem is, she doesn't want him to come. Every time you take a new guy to a wedding, you have to introduce him to everyone there. She doesn't think he's ever going to see any of these people again, so she doesn't want to spend her time at the wedding introducing him to new people when she could just be enjoying herself. Slacker thinks that she has a separate agenda, whether she says so or not. She just wants to see if the grass is greener on the other side...if it is, then she'll dump the current boyfriend and scurry on out to Ohio. If not, she'll go home and say "Oh I love you!" Steve agrees with Sammy! She's only trying to make the whole situation more fun for them both. Neither of them will have fun if they both go because he'll be all alone when she sees her friends and she'll have to be introducing him the whole time. I think she's being pretty insensitive. First of all, he actually wants to go to a wedding with her so that's kind of a big deal. Secondly, it takes two seconds to introduce someone. Even if you think that's going to be annoying, you should tough it out so you can enjoy the wedding with him. That shows that you care about him. She didn't say she's uncomfortable with it because they just started dating or that she's about to break up with him so what's the big deal? Put on your big girl pants and introduce him to some people; you've been together for 7 months! Trying to explain why you don't want him to come will probably make him feel like you're uncomfortable or that you don't think he's that great. What do you think she should do? Until Next Time, xoxo--Intern Elizabeth Back To Blog
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10/19/2011 2:24PM

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10/19/2011 2:48PM

Valene Brandt

Yi! She is an adult and should not have to be made to feel guilty about wanting to do something with her circle of friends without having to be burdened with a man who will feel out of place and need extra attention from her the entire time. She does not have an ulterior motive. She just wants to have a good time. Slacker: IE: Vegas and Poker are great examples. Thank you.

10/19/2011 2:49PM

suzie

There is absolutely no reason she should have to take him with her. As someone who used to live in Ohio I wouldn't take anyone there with me no matter what the reason... No matter the state of their relationship it is ridiculous for people to accuse her of all these stupid things. He will probably enjoy himself more by staying home than going to the wedding.

10/27/2011 5:56PM

I agree with slacker

I think she has a separate agenda. Lets reverse it, if it was a guy who didn't want to bring his girlfriend then all the women would be flipping out. "oh he has something up his sleeve" but if she doesn't want it it's okay. First I think she should be happy he cares enough to want to go, he obviously loves her. Second she needs to stop being selfish. She is in a relationship, if I was the boyfriend I would dump her for selfishness. I would never do that to my guy, that's pretty messed up.