Take Boyfriend To Wedding
Sammy's friend's getting married soon back in her hometown in Ohio and her boyfriend wants to go to the wedding with her. The only problem is, she doesn't want him to come. Every time you take a new guy to a wedding, you have to introduce him to everyone there. She doesn't think he's ever going to see any of these people again, so she doesn't want to spend her time at the wedding introducing him to new people when she could just be enjoying herself.
Slacker thinks that she has a separate agenda, whether she says so or not. She just wants to see if the grass is greener on the other side...if it is, then she'll dump the current boyfriend and scurry on out to Ohio. If not, she'll go home and say "Oh I love you!" Steve agrees with Sammy! She's only trying to make the whole situation more fun for them both. Neither of them will have fun if they both go because he'll be all alone when she sees her friends and she'll have to be introducing him the whole time.
I think she's being pretty insensitive. First of all, he actually wants to go to a wedding with her so that's kind of a big deal. Secondly, it takes two seconds to introduce someone. Even if you think that's going to be annoying, you should tough it out so you can enjoy the wedding with him. That shows that you care about him. She didn't say she's uncomfortable with it because they just started dating or that she's about to break up with him so what's the big deal? Put on your big girl pants and introduce him to some people; you've been together for 7 months! Trying to explain why you don't want him to come will probably make him feel like you're uncomfortable or that you don't think he's that great.
What do you think she should do?
Until Next Time, xoxo--Intern Elizabeth