Today’s OPP is from Erin, who is unsure if she should tell her boyfriend one last thing before she calls it off.
Yi guys! I’m breaking up with my boyfriend. He’s not a bad guy and things might have worked out, but he has a few gross habits I can’t get past. He is a nose picker and chews with his mouth open. It’s disgusting. Thing is, I’m wondering if I should tell him that’s why I’m breaking up with him. He’s a good guy and when he finds the right girl I don’t want him to blow it with her. What do you think? Should I tell him so he can try to quit?
Steve couldn’t do that, he usually goes ghost, but he feels that they would just resent what was said. Slacker dated a beautiful woman, she was just horribly rude to waiters, but he never told her why he broke up with her. Slacker and Steve have mixed feeling about the “exit interview”.
What advice do you have?
These seem really minor, and I don’t think it is necessary to share. If they were going to stay together I would see telling him the things that bother her, but since she doesn’t want to be with him then I don’t see the point, even though the habits are weird.