Yi! My girlfriend's best friend has been on and off with a guy for the last few years. She was hanging out at our apartment and told my girlfriend that they were back together and she had stopped taking her birth control and she hasn't told her boyfriend. She's trying to get pregnant on purpose! I've met the guy a few times and I barely know him, but I feel like maybe I should give him a warning about what she's doing. It could change his life forever. At the same time, I think he's an idiot for always getting back with this crazy girl and they both need to learn their lesson. What should I do?
Slacker said that the confrontation of the 2 men would be weird. It was like this girl was taunting Rob thinking he wouldn’t tell her boyfriend. He thinks that if the 2 are not close it would be awkward. And if this was Steve in this situation, Slacker wouldn’t tell Steve because he keeps getting back with the crazy lady.
Steve says that if he was Rob then he would definitely tell the boyfriend. His ultimate rule is to never get into someone’s relationships, but he would break that rule in this case. He said he doesn’t care if he would flip out in public or punched him in the face he would prevent someone from being tricked. Steve says he always bring his birth control no matter what. Never trust a woman.
Should Rob tell this guy or just let him learn his lesson?
I definitely think Rob should tell the guy that his girlfriend is planning something like this. I don’t think it is fair to the boyfriend and bringing a child into this world with another broken relationship wouldn’t be wise. Stop being selfish. Just tell him!!
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