Today’s OPP came to us from April. She writes:
Yi Guys! I had the worst night the other night. I had my first ever "hooker moment". I met a guy at a bar and we went back to his place for the night. The next morning as I was leaving I noticed pictures of him and his wife spread around his place. Most of the pictures were turned face-down. Now, I don’t know what to do. I would have never hooked up with him if I would have known he was married! I have his number…should I tell his wife? What do I do?!?!
Steve said that April may be jumping to conclusions. He suggested that maybe they were separated or divorced and the guy actually didn’t do anything wrong. Slacker said that anytime he was going through a divorce, he never turned any pictures in the house face down. He also said that he wouldn’t have brought a girl back to his place at that time—he would have gotten a hotel room. Both guys believed that April is a good girl and probably wouldn’t have hooked up with the guy if she would have known.
Slacker said this is the same as a friend asking you for a ride to the bank and then robbing it when you got there. Wouldn’t you want to call the cops or call the bank to tell them you know what happened? He said April should probably tell. Steve definitely thinks that April is sticking her nose in business that is not hers.
I think April needs to let this one go. By no means am I saying what the guy did was right, but she might be bringing more trouble her way if she does say something to his wife. I can't say that I've ever really been in this position, but I've seen enough movies to know that a scorned woman will do some pretty crazy things. I'm with the guys and I believe that April probably wouldn't have hooked up with the guy if she had known, but what is in the past is done. Leave it there and move on.
What do you think April should do? Should she tell the guy’s wife or walk away now?
- Producer Dave
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