Yi! My ex-boyfriend did me wrong. He cheated and refuses to pay back the money I loaned him. I have embarrassing video of him that could hurt his career and ego if posted to Facebook and the net. I am not a vengeful person, but in this case I am. If you were me would you post the video to get even? My family says I shouldn't and should act classier than him. My friends all say POST THE VIDEO and get even. What do I do?