Yi Slacker and Steve,
My husband of 16 years died in a car accident a little over a year ago. I recently worked up the courage to start going through some of his stuff and moving on. As I was cleaning out a box of documents in the basement, I found about 10 love letters to and from another woman. There is no mention of anything physical but they without a doubt made their feelings for each other known. The letters were all dated and we were definitely married when they were writing them. I am so absolutely devastated. I have been mourning the loss of the most important man in my life for a year and now I feel like our relationship was a lie. I have no idea who the other woman is, but her address is on one of the envelopes. I feel like I need to know just how far things went between them. Should I go talk to her?
Should she try find out what was going on between them?