OPP: Stripper Mom
by Slacker And Steve
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posted Aug 31 2012 6:41PM
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Yi!!!
Today’s OPP Comes from Madisyn…
Yi guys! My son is in 2nd grade and some of his friends are not allowed to hang out with him anymore and it’s all because of me. I’m not sure how, but one of the parents at my son’s school found out that I am a dancer at a club. While I was picking my son up the other day, I heard him ask one of his friends if he wanted to come over to our house to play and the kid told him, “My mom said I’m not allowed to go to a stripper’s house.” I’m crushed! First, I don’t want this to hurt my son and mess up his chances at having friends. Second, I don’t let my son see that side of my life at all. It’s not like I have a pole in the living room. What do I do now?
Madisyn
First of all, she spells her name like an exotic dancer…Slacker and Steve have both dated exotic dancers.
Slacker dated an exotic dancer who was a mom. She’s a mom! There’s not going to be black lacquer furniture from the 80’s in every stripper’s living room! These women are doing what they can do to make ends meet. He suggests you do what you would normally do! Go to the mom’s house and meet her, talk to her about the kids wanting to play together and check out the situation for yourself. Don’t go by what some hen has spread throughout the school district. Slacker would let his kid hang out as long everything is cool. He would go see for himself if she’s cooking meth, doing blow or decorating all goth. Don’t punish the kid for the parent’s profession. That’s ridiculous. If you knew your kid was going to a house that is politically conservative and you are a liberal, does it make a difference? No! The difference is made when you see it first hand and make sure your child is safe. Normal method of operation is all that is needed here.
Steve has to pretend he had a kid. Would he let his kid hang out?
Slacker wanted to know if woman prefer to be called a stripper or an exotic dancer?
Steve says at first it would be exotic dancer. Then he said it didn’t matter!
What can she do to help her son lead a normal social life?
Of course you go over to meet the mom!!! No problem! I would never judge someone by their job or their appearance without having some small insight. Let your kid hang out with the kid, not the parent. To me, it’s as simple as that. Oh, one last thing…Communicate with your kid and see what’s going with him and how he wants to move forward. She could always make a plan to change her career if she feels ashamed and doesn’t want him to know what she does.
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