Yi! I need your Guys help!! I have been with my Boyfriend for little over a year. And we had made a BIG move to Texas a few months back. We talked about Marriage and how we would want our wedding to be like. The thing is we aren't even engaged. But just in the last week he has been saying he no longer want to get married and the thought of a wedding stresses him out. I feel lead on and I dunno if I should move back to Colorado or not. I love him with all my heart. I just know if I move back home it will end our relationship. I would marry this guy in heart beat if he would ask. Please Slacker and Steve. I need your help.
Slacker says as a guy you do not get stressed out by the idea of getting married, that’s crap, but she is right about one thing…That the relationship will be over if she moves back to Colorado. Slacker says both guys and girl will go back and forth on kids because in their life at that moment we start to re-examine things. This guy did this with marriage and can we really be mad at him for it?
Slacker makes a good point, but if her heart is set on getting married then she really needs to sit down and chat with him because ultimately I think with a new city, it’s like a new start and maybe he’s thinking it'