OPP: Meet The Ex's Girlfriend
Today Kira joined us live on the air, but here is the e-mail she sent us:
Yi! My boyfriend and I have been broken up for three years, but I have to admit, I just recently really got over it. Now he wants to get together for lunch and introduce me to his new girlfriend. He says we'll really like each other and that he'd love for us to meet. But I just don't know if I'm ready for all that. Should I take the high ground and meet her -- or can I/should I say no thanks?
One, I can completely relate to Kira about it taking years for her to get over someone. It’s really, really rough when you thought that person was going to be the one. I know Kira would be a strong person for going through on this lunch, but I don’t think it’s a good idea bringing the new girlfriend to meet the old flame. A lot of things could go wrong. Some people get lucky with the transition back into friends and the new significant other trusting in that, but it seems so rare these days.
What do you think? What advice do you have for Kira?
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