Today’s OPP is from Elaina and she joined us live:
Her and her boyfriend planned a trip to Cancun. He offered to take her and pay for it. Now a month before their trip he said she needs to lose fifteen pounds. He said if she doesn’t she has to pay her own way if she doesn’t. He got her a gym membership, threw away all the junk food, and had her way in.
Steve thinks he is just helping her out, and he is just helping her out. Slacker wants to know if she complains about her weight, because maybe he is doing it to be a motivator for her. He does think maybe he should have said something from the beginning and not at the last minute. Steve thinks he is just trying to help her out and that he is there to help give her a push.
I think she should talk to him. I can see it as him just trying to help her out, but I can see it as a little out of line. I think she should just talk to him and tell him that she is thankful for him wanting to help but maybe this isn’t the best way. I think she should say that she will try to hit that goal but not be punished if she doesn’t.
Do you think he is helping her out or is he out of line?