OPP: I Never Got To Try This
Jessica joined us on the air today to discuss her problem. If you remember Elaina’s story, it’s kind of like hers… Jessica is getting married at the end of the summer, but ever since puberty she has always been attracted to both guys and girls. Problem is, she grew up in a really Christian home so she never got to experience what it would be like with a girl. She’s really excited to be with her soon to be husband, but like Elaina, she would like to have a one night stand, but not with a guy… but with a girl… She doesn’t know if she should talk to her husband about this or if she should just do this… or should she leave this in the realm of fantasy?
Slacker thinks she should leave it as a fantasy. When he was a rock star, he really wanted to the three way thing so badly, but he didn’t because like drugs, he was afraid if he crossed that threshold, he would never come back. He doesn’t know what to right answer is though for Jessica… What do you think she should do?
From hearing Jessica’s voice, I can tell she is always going to wonder what it would be like to be with a girl. I can’t believe I’m saying this, but she needs to just go out and do it because it’s not fair to her soon to be husband. What if she does get with a girl and decides she likes that better… Wouldn’t it be best if she does that before she gets married? Telling her husband beforehand will only hurt him I think. I know it’s always best to be honest and open with each other because trust is huge in a relationship, and again I can’t believe I’m saying this, but what you don’t know won’t hurt you. She just needs clarity.
Peace. Love – Assistant Producer Stephanie