“Yi guys! I hooked up with a guy a few months ago and it never turned into anything. Now, this SAME guy is dating my best friend. She’s happy and head over heels for him and I don’t want to ruin this for her. Should I tell my friend that I hooked up with her boyfriend a few months ago or should I just keep my mouth shut to avoid a confrontation?
Slacker asked- if they were in this situation- would they want to know if their friend once slept with their significant other before they were ever seriously involved. Both of them decided that it would be better to be told because it was one night and was before they became a “thing”. Why not tell?
Should Jasmine tell her friend? Who should tell?
I’ve never been in this situation but I feel that she should tell her friend because a) it was before her hook up “got the girl” (her BFF) and b) if her BFF were to randomly find out in some nonspecific way would definitely piss her off. Situations like these always seem to come down to the strength of the friendship. Friendships are a different being all their own, but in the end you should be able to tell you BFFs anything. Certainly don’t expect them to always be happy with what you tell them, but that’s the basic idea.
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