She has an ex boyfriend from college that didn’t work out and decided to be friends. Amy is now married and she said her husband is a very jealous person. She started talking to her ex from college and they have had lunch a few times. She says nothing is going on that it really is just old friends catching up. Her friends know and they told her that it needs to end.
Slacker says if she isn’t doing anything wrong then she wouldn’t have a problem telling her husband. He says the fact that she hasn’t told him yet still seems like your hiding something, and if you have to deceive your spouse then you shouldn’t be doing it. Slacker would want his wife to tell him right away, and would lose respect and trust for her if she kept something like that from him. Steve says even if she stops seeing him, her friends still know and it might get to her husband, which would be worse. They say one of them wants more than just a friendship.
I think she should have been honest from the beginning and should still tell her husband. I could never keep something like this from my boyfriend. I trust him and he trusts me so why would I want to ruin that. I agree with the guys, Amy keeping it from her husband it does seem like she is hiding something.
Do you think she should listen to her friends and stop hanging out with her ex behind her husband’s back?