His girlfriend wants to get engaged. He’s not quite ready yet and wants to get a promise ring to hold her over. Will that work or is it a cop out?
Slacker and Steve, don’t think that this is a good idea. If he isn’t ready she shouldn’t push him, but maybe he needs the push and they have been dating for years! Slacker and Steve have been playing devil’s advocate for today’s OPP.
What do you think?
If they are in a committed relationship and know that they want to spend the rest of their lives together then she shouldn’t push an engagement if he isn’t ready. In the long run it sounds like he wants to be with her; and that’s all that should matter, and not a ring on the finger.
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