Today's OPP comes to us from Brandy. She writes:
Yi! I’ve been in somewhat of a rut lately and I need your advice. My problem is that I get asked out all the time and I go on alot of dates with some really great guys but I never get asked for a second date. A few of my friends say it may be because I’m to intimidating or to high maintenance. They suggested that I dress down more and hold back some of my personality to hook a guy…then once I have him go back to my original self. They said you have to give in to a guy in the beginning to get a guy. I just want to know if anyone has ever done this and if it really works. Thanks for the help.
Slacker wanted to know if Brandy’s friends meant wearing a football jersey and drinking beer on her date instead of rocking a Louis Vuitton purse and shoes with red bottoms. If that is the case, he would be mad if he were the guy. He also called Steve out for faking it on dates. Steve admitted that when he is out of his element ordering wine or sushi, he will text Slacker for advice and pretend to know what he is doing. Steve also thinks that powerful women that have a lot of money dumb themselves down for guys.
Do you think women should dumb themselves down to get a second date? Have you done it?