Yi! My buddy has been married for 7 years. His wife informed him that she was on her last pack of birth control and after it's gone it's all up to you. When he asked her what she meant she said she wanted to have a baby and if it's not with you then it's going to be with someone else. He was totally blind-sided. He doesn't know what to do now. He isn't thrilled to have kids right now. He says they aren't in a good place to have kids right now. He doesn't know what to do now. He doesn't want his marriage to end, but he also doesn't want to have a baby right now. Suggestions?
I think Joe's buddy is in a world of hurt here. I think that every man knows that when a woman sets her mind on having a baby there is no talking her out of it. Being a guy, I agree with Joe's friend that it is better to wait until you are financially able to support another life to have a baby. In short, Joe's buddy better get a second job and give his wife what she wants!
How does Joe's friend convince his wife to wait without losing the relationship?