Today Chrissie joined us live on the air to discuss her problem.
She has been with a great guy for over a year now, he treats her right, has never really done anything wrong, but she is struggling with this one question… “How do I know for sure he really loves me?” He’s never been a guy to talk about his feelings and is very shy, so she’s nervous he’s just saying it to get what he wants? Could that be the case?
Steve believes 99% of women out there are wondering the thing. He also believes all you have to do is say I love you to get into a woman’s pants because after those three little words, for lacks of better words, we just turn stupid. To Steve, 9 out of 10 times a man says I love you, he doesn’t mean it. He’s just saying it to get what he wants.
Slacker thinks men over compartmentalize everything while women are always looking for rainbows and butterflies. However, Slacker is a lot more like Chrissie then say, Steve. He wants to feel the signs and he can look at someone like his wife and just know she loves him and he loves her. Sometimes it just doesn’t have to be said. It’s hard to put his finger on it, but he just knows when it’s happening.
I have no idea how to know for sure if when a man says I love you, he really means it. When I love someone, I get this feeling inside of me that I can’t control and unfortunately, there’s just no way of knowing if the guy truly feels the same way. Especially if he comes off shy and doesn’t share his emotions. I think that’s ok at times, but I don’t know Chrissie…
What do you think? How do you know for sure that your man really loves you?