Great Mate Debate: Sister Secret
Todays live Great Mate Debate comes from sisters Carrie and Melanie. Melanie lives in California and just had a baby, and Carrie recently went to visit and help out with the new baby. While Carrie was there, Melanie confided to her that she sabotaged her birth control in order to get pregnant. Melanie says it's none of Carrie's business and she thinks she should focus on her own life.
Steve says that Carrie took the husbands choice away which is not right, even if it is "sunshine and roses now." But on the other hand, if he is a good father and enjoying it, than why reck it now? Slacker is hoping this one is not an ultimatum and has a hard time choosing what he thinks is right. Slacker agrees that it's not really Carrie's business but if there was sabotage in the room he'd want to know...
Whose side are you on?
I have a sister who I am so close with and can honestly say that if this was us I'd be super ticked off at her for taking the decision away from the guy. However, she is my sister, my best friend and only person I truly trust in this world so I would let it be her decision. I would give her my opinion and hope that she made the best decision for all parties involved and never bring it up again...until I had to say I told you so when the guy finally found out somehow.
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